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B2 – Upper Intermediate<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When the majority of waking hours are spent at work, it\u2019s natural to want to create stronger bonds and friendships with team members and management.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many times, we think being friends with our bosses is the key to a great life at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, even if you have a great relationship with your boss, boundaries are essential in the workplace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read the article to know more why workplace coaches advise against being friends with your boss. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2023\/05\/08\/why-your-boss-cannot-be-your-friend-from-a-workplace-coach.html<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vocabulary Questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. What does “pink slip”<\/strong> mean? \u201cThey might cry on the Zoom call with you, but they sure are going to hand you that pink slip<\/strong>.<\/em>\u201d <\/em>Use it in a sentence. <\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. What does “top-down” <\/strong>mean in this sentence, “Leaders in the workplace are accountable for results, including your performance and the performance of others.<\/em> Top-down<\/strong> friendships can make these results seem biased– and many American workers agree.”?<\/em> Use it in a sentence.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. What does “to do right by someone” <\/strong>mean? <\/em>\u201cWhere their desire to do right by you<\/strong> is going to conflict with their responsibility to their job.<\/em>\u201d Use it in a sentence. <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Discussion Questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. What are the predisposed troubles caused by having a cordial relationship with the boss?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    2. Do you agree or disagree with this, “No matter how great of a relationship you have with your boss, it\u2019s generally not the best idea to be friends with them.”<\/em>? Share your thoughts.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    3. Do you believe that a personal relationship can make things complicated when bosses may need to make difficult decisions? Explain.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    4. Managers are responsible for performance reviews. Do you think top-down friendships can affect these results? Explain.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    5. The foundation of your professional relationship with your boss has to be the performance and not interpersonal connection. Share your insights on this.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    6. How can one establish boundaries at work? How do you maintain boundaries between you and your boss? Or if you are a manager, you and your team?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    7. Talk about favoritism in the workplace. <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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