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B2 – Upper Intermediate<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Getting your food first might feel lucky, but it can also be awkward. You’re hungry, but unsure if it’s rude to start eating before everyone else. It\u2019s a small moment that shows how even meals come with their own quiet rules.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s read the article to learn more about why this simple dining moment can feel so uncomfortable when you’re the first to be served.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

https:\/\/scienceblog.com\/the-silent-agony-of-getting-your-food-first<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vocabulary Questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. What does “to show restraint<\/strong>” mean? “\u2026 even when those same people wouldn\u2019t expect their dining companions to show such restraint<\/strong>.”<\/em> Use it in a sentence.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. Explain the phrase “in the company of others<\/strong>“. \u201cThe decision of when to start eating food in the company of others<\/strong> is a very common dilemma.<\/em>” Use it in your own sentence.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. Define the phrase “twinge of guilt<\/strong>“. “When you\u2019re the one with hot food cooling on your plate, you can feel every twinge of guilt<\/strong>, every moment of social awkwardness, and every benefit of appearing considerate.<\/em>” Use it in a sentence and give two synonyms.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Discussion Questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    1. What\u2019s your take on the study\u2019s conclusions?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    2. What\u2019s the customary practice in your country when it comes to starting a meal? Do people wait until all are served?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    3. How do you react when others start eating before your food has been served?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    4. Which table etiquette rules are most valued where you\u2019re from?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    5. What distinct dining customs have stood out to you during your travels?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

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