B1 – Intermediate
When you start dating, it appears like a perfect relationship, everything is exciting, your partner showers with you attention, takes you on romantic dates, and does shared experiences with you.
Then, when things get more serious, he or she just just disappears without giving you any explanation.
This behavior is something called flash-panning.
Listen to this audio and read the transcript about this modern dating trend called “flash-panning”.
https://www.newsinlevels.com/products/what-is-flash-panning-level-3
Vocabulary Questions:
- Define “love bombing”. “Flash-panning is a modern dating trend similar to love bombing and ghosting.” Use this phrase in a sentence.
- What does “to come into play” mean? “However, when reality comes into play, like dealing with schedules or responsibilities, the person, called the flashpanner, suddenly disappears. ” Use this idiom in a sentence. Give a synonym.
- What does “compromise” mean here, “They enjoy the fun stage but cannot manage conflicts or compromises that come later.”? Use this word in a sentence in the same context.
Discussion Questions:
- What is your opinion about flash-panning?
- What other dating trends do you know of? Describe it.
- How has dating changed in your country over the years?
- Share your thoughts on this, “Since flash-panners don’t know how to handle conflicts and compromises, they vanishwithout explanation, which is emotionally painful for the person left behind.”
- Do you agree or disagree, “Conflicts are normal in relationships.”? Explain.