B2 – Upper Intermediate
Distinguishing “supporting” and “enabling” is crucial in relationships and personal growth. Both of these ideas involve lending a hand to others but they have different outcomes.
Read this article to learn the difference between supporting and enabling.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/supporting-enabling-difference_l_64c004ffe4b00356919b39ae
Vocabulary Questions:
- What does “cross the line”mean? “People often do not realize that they are crossing the fine line between support and enabling.” Give a synonym and write a sentence using “cross the line”.
- What does “teeter into” mean? “But sometimes people’s attempts at support teeter into more harmful territory: enablement.” Give a synonym and write a sentence using “teeter into”.
- What does “swoop into” mean? “It sends the signal that life is perfect, that everyone else will swoop into clean up the mess and reinforces entitled behavior.” Give a synonym and write a sentence using “swoop into”.
Discussion Questions:
- What is the key difference between supporting and enabling when it comes to helping someone in need?
- Are there situations where enabling might be necessary or justified, and if so, what distinguishes them from situations where support is more appropriate?
- How does setting healthy boundaries play a role in differentiating between support and enabling?
- What are some instances of enabling actions that might be misinterpreted as support?
- How do you find a balance between giving support and letting a friend or family member to face the repercussions of their actions when faced with constant mistakes or poor choices?