B2 – Upper Intermediate
Real friends are those you can depend on whatever happens. Even when times get rough, they will be there to give you a helping hand, lend you their ears, or just be a shoulder for you to cry on.
However, it seems that for men, it is not that easy to make friends and keep their relationships with their best mates stand the test of time.
Listen to the audio and read the transcript about how big a challenge it is for men to make friends and maintain their friendships.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/learningenglish/english/features/6-minute-english_2023/ep-230914
Vocabulary Questions:
- What does ”drift away” mean? “So why do we sometimes find it hard to make friends, or that the friends we used to have seemed to have somehow drifted away?” Use this phrase in a sentence.
- What does “double-edged sword” mean? “No, it’s a real double-edged sword being the face of a book called ‘Billy No-Mates’ I’ve gotta say… but I think.. so loneliness doesn’t look like me.” Use this idiom in a sentence.
- What does “third space” mean, “Max thinks the answer is getting out and meeting people in ‘third spaces’, which are separate from either home or work.”? Use this idiom in a sentence.
Discussion Questions:
- Explain your views on this, “Men find it difficult to make friends.“.
- What do you think are reasons men find it harder to maintain strong friendships, especially as they get older?
- What are ways you maintain your relationship with your close friends solid?
- Why is having close friends important?
- What are the downsides of having too many friends?